I write the things people are thinking but aren't supposed to say.
Military spouse life. Identity. Grief. Resentment. Invisible labor. Broken systems. Marriage. Motherhood. The absurdity of being told to “be resilient” when what you really need is for something to fucking change.
Some of it is funny. Some of it is uncomfortable. Some of it pisses people off.
Good.
Because someone has to say it.
Published Writing:
Military Spouse Social Co. Issue 3, Page 25-26
Stars and Stripes Military Spouse Entrepreneur Guide "You've Been Leading All Along" - Page 19
National Military Spouse Network Spouse Highlight
"Resilient" Has Become A Polite Way Of Saying We're Not Going To Fix It
Coming Soon:
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Behind the Camouflage - coming soon
Apparently I Struck A Nerve
The pieces that sparked conversation, connection, or a lot of "I thought I was the only one."
"I don't have an attitude"
If military spouses collectively stopped 'figuring it out'
About the author
I write from inside this life—not as an observer looking in, but as someone who has spent nearly two decades living the realities I write about. My work asks uncomfortable questions, challenges the narratives we've accepted, and puts words to experiences military families are often expected to quietly carry.
